Simple pleasures can indeed bring great joy to people living with Alzheimer’s. Often the activities can be based on something that brought pleasure to the person before getting Alzheimer’s. Here’s a little story that can serve as an example.
When I went to visit Ed one day, I realized I’d forgotten to bring any ‘props’ for the visit. Usually I brought something to amuse Ed such as a new stuffed animal, a book with colorful pictures, some of my photographs, a CD with classical music or something like that.
Those things engaged his mind, to the extent that was still possible, and gave us a focal point for interacting.
Suddenly I realized I was wearing a coat with numerous pockets I was sure he would love to explore. I thought the fact that he enjoyed exploring pockets and compartments in clothing, purses or brief cases so much was somehow related to his life-long fixation on ‘luggages’ and his love of exploring all their different compartments.
He spent 30 minutes gleefully exploring all the pockets in the coat. Then he smiled at me and told me twice how happy he was that I had such a wonderful coat. I was touched that that wonderful demented man was happy for me.
That was so typical of Ed. Instead of saying how happy he was to play with the coat, he said how happy he was that I had it. As I left I felt loved. I also felt deeply gratified I’d been able to bring him so much happiness with a simple coat. Just a simple coat with a few pockets.